Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Make 'em Smile!
Welcome to Service – The Action Form of Love
Over the past year or so, we’ve had to endure bad (and sometimes worse) news.
We’ve seen the economy nosedive, taking jobs, homes and our retirement savings plans with it. Crime seems to always be above the fold, and the wars of the world sap our national energy and will.
We’ve also had a recent scare with a strain of flu never before seen. Regrettably, this has given some a feeling of superiority and they feel justified in spreading the fear of racism. Others have used the scare in unethical marketing practices. They seem to want to prosper on the fear they can create in others.
At times like this, it’s easy for any of us to feel down, if not downright depressed. Singly, there’s really not much we can do to reverse the negative trends we seem to have inherited. Collectively, however, there are things we can do to help each other through it.
One of the primary things we can do is to uplift one another. When someone is having a bad day, feeling the very natural doubts that come with overwhelmingly bad news, we can take on the responsibility to help them.
So, how can you help?
Your challenge today is likely one of the simplest I’ve ever posted.
When you’re faced with a problem, smile.
When a coworker or fellow student or even your spouse brings you bad news…
Smile when a frown or even tears are more appropriate. Smile when others want to bring you down with the latest headlines. Smile when your boss gives you more work. Smile when you get a bill in the mail.
That’s all there is to it.
I’m well aware that though this is simple, it’s not exactly easy.
Our very natural, human reaction to bad news is to curse and shake our fists at the heavens.
But today – just for today, I’m asking you to smile. Even if you don’t feel like it.
How is this related to serving others?
Our attitudes and emotions can be very infectious. If you smile in the face of stress, tension and negativity, chances are, those around you will feel a little lighter. They may not see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I promise you, your smiling today will have an effect on somebody.
And even if you can help just one person you with your smile, isn’t it worth the effort?
Thank you for taking time to come and read my blog today. I realize time is a precious commodity. Knowing you take time out of your day to come here, well, that makes me smile.
Thank you also for taking the time to pass the word. I appreciate knowing that you forward, repost, tweet, digg and stumble my words. I love the fact that you’re willing to share.
And, I’m especially grateful you remember that Service is The Action Form of Love.